I was just thinking earlier about when Leland was dxd and what some of the nurses, dr's, and CDE's said to us in the hospital. I'm sure it must be very difficult for them to try and comfort a disraught mother and some how make us feel better when we have been given the life changing information that our kids will have to live with D the rest of their life. Some of the things that they said though really irritated me and didn't help so much to make the situation feel better. Like; "its good that he is being dxd so young, he'll never know anything different" That phrase does nothing but make me depressed. So what things did your Dr's, nurses, cde's etc say that weren't all that comforting? What kind of things do you think they could have said instead that would offer some sort of hope/encouragement?