Recently we have had a few people pass comment on the fact that DH and I do the night time testing for Tyler. (Bear in mind, these people are ignorant of D although one is a medic). They told us that at 14, Tyler should be responsible for testing himself every two hours on those nights when D is not playing fair. He does wake and deal with his lows himself during the night, but we do the all night stuff. DH and I have discussed this and decided that as long as Tyler has to live with D for the rest of his life, if we can take some of the burden while he is living at home, then we are happy to do so. And the next 3 yrs of his schooling involves major exams that will enable him to go to university to pursue the career of his choice. So our thinking is that it is not fair to expect him to be up all through the night AND go to school and get the results we or he expects. Are we wrong?