hi, i post infrequently due to busy mommy syndrome but my 2nd child is starting college in sept. dh found out today we will be moving to michigan, about 3+ hours away from our son, who wants to remain here in ohio for college. he will be about 30 minutes away from our current ped. endo(i don't know what insurance we will end up with, and if our current endo will still be jake's dr...sigh) so, should i encourage jacob to come with us, to michigan, or allow him to go to this school, he'll room with a high school friend(though not best friends as my son is quite the homebody and not super social although he is an athlete and plays sports all year long). who all do i contact at the university? jake has already been accepted and received some scholarship. he was not too interested in searching for the perfect college like his older sister did. he was content to find something close to our current home with a good business school. he does not like when i tell people he's diabetic, he's very compliant and tests as often as he needs to(sometimes many times a day if he's feeling funky)...so that's the situation in a nutshell. he will be living in a dorm. any pointers? any thoughts? i have this huge swirling thing over my head- thinking about moving, jake graduating, jake's a1c(it was 8 this last time), my 4 other kids, finding a new home in a new state, dh's new position, etc etc...so many details all revolving around meeting the needs of the people i love the most-my family. i want to encourage jacob's independence but do not want to overlook any details regarding his health. thank you so much.