This really was to suddden, we had just got past the midpoint of radiation and chemo., and were focusing on what we would do after treaments where done. While in radiation treatment he had a seizure, the first ever, and then passed on before they could do anything else. It is just a shock. He is gone. I can not imagine any better way for this to have played out, aside from him being cured. My MIL and aunt where close by, he was in a medical facility, my kids where not with them, which they had been the last to Thursdays. My husband was with my girls when he got the news. He had had gotten in touch with alot of his freinds in the previous days and was expressing that he did not want to be disabled in any way. My sister in law flew in yesterday with her family, and although they where not able to see him before he passed they where here the same day of his death from europe. Please wish that we keep our strenght up and can get past the shock and move on to a time of remembrance of a man that was the the core of the family.