In memory of Eilish O'Brien - 3 months today

Thinking of Mel, and Charlie and Ella and extended immediate family today of their tragic loss, of Eilish 3 months ago due to type 1, on the 20th October 2010.

Unless one has lost a child, they can not believe the unbearable pain, of enduring and facing each day, without their presence in their lives.

Whilst we endure the frustration of living with children with type 1, I assure you Mel would do anything to go back to that world, just to have Eilish back in her arms.

I respectfully ask the CWD community to bow their heads for a minutes silence and remember, no matter how hard your day was, a Mother is grieving for her loss, of a beautiful, very talented daughter that is no longer with her.

If you wish to leave Mel a message, on here please do so, I will be seeing her tommorrow, and she can view messages in her own time, she is still a member of this community.

Kind regards.

Pepper 1

Mother to Laura dx'd 4 March 2010, type1 and coeliac
Adam - 12 years old
Still married to sheep Farmer.

 

Mel, you don't know me, but I think of Eilish and your family often. A girl like her will never be forgotten.

 

I think of Eilish, Mel, Charlie and Ella every single day.

 

So sorry for your loss - its not the way life is supposed to work -not supposed to bury our children. Praying for God to give you his strength each day

 

Mel, praying for your angel, Eilish, yesterday today, and tomorrow. You, Charlie and Ella continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

 

God bless your angel in heaven.

 

Mel, You , Charlie and Ella are in my continued prayers. I think of you all often. Eilish was such a special girl, so bright, talented and wise beyond her years. I am so thankful to be friends with you on fb too which has given me the privilege of getting to know your beautiful girl better through her poetry, family stories and photos. ((Hugs))

 

our continued thoughts and prayers go out to Mel and her family.

 

Praying for you and your family today. Wish I could hug you.

 

Keeping you in my prayers. We remember.

 

Mel, Charlie, and Ella,

You are in my thoughts and I turn my tears into a prayer for you.

 

Mel--I have thought of you & your family so many times over the past months. I can not begin to imagine your pain from this loss but hope it brings some amount of comfort to know so many are keeping you in their prayers.

 

Keeping you all in my prayers today!

 

Pepper, With tears in my eyes, Please, Please, when you see her tomorrow, give her an extra hug and tell her this one is from Martha.

 

My heart aches for Mel, Charlie, and Ella. What their pain must be is beyond my comprehension. Sending them love and prayers......

 

Mel and Charlie, I think about Eilish every single day. I read the poems and lyrics you post, and I smile thinking about her cleverness. I look at her pictures and I cry , thinking about the joy this world has lost. Mel, Charlie, and Ella - please know, that no matter how alone you feel right now, you have an entire community grieving with you.

 

Mel, Charlie and Ella, you are in my thoughts every single day. I'm praying for all of you. Eilish was such a terrible loss to this world.

 

Yes, we do remember. I think of you all often. I wish there was something else I could say, but I know there isn't. Just know that your family is in our prayers.

 

I light this candle in memory of you,
My life, my child, my heart,
May it shine bright and true,
As you did from the start.

In it's flickering flame I see,
The life we shared together,
The love and wonderful memories,
That I'll carry with me forever.

I light this candle in memory of you,
I look up to the Heavens where you are,
I see the lights of Heaven shining bright too,
But your candle shines brighter than the brightest star.

My child you are still so much a part of me,
Even though you are no longer here,
You live on in my heart where you will always be,
No matter what, I will always keep you there.

On this special night I light this candle for you,
And I hope every one who sees it will know,
How very special you are, how much you are loved and missed too,
And will remember you with me when they see it's golden glow.........

 

We remember so that we will never forget. You are in my thoughts and prayers always.