We had a very good visiting nurse when we first came home from the hospital. She helped me organize all our new "stuff" in a way that made life simpler, and she watched the first time we diluted insulin. It was nice to have another set of eyes. On the flip side though, we live in a neighborhood of Boston that could be considered your target population. We've had many well meaning folks want to come to the house for different community "outreach" services and it can feel very invasive. I echo Lisa. Listen first.