My DD 16 just got her license. We are adjusting to the changes. My parents have been out of town for months and just returned from thier snow bird trip. My CWD 11 wanted to go see the grandparents but didn't want to get a ride from the new driver so said she would just walk up there. So my husband let her walk to their house, about a mile away. He checked her BS and gave her a snack and she had her phone and CGM and another snack. Grandparents were aware to watch for her and check on her. I emailed him to tell him that I had possibly found a DJ for DD's Sweet Sixteen party (just found out today the DJ is ditching us) and he emailed me back to let me know the above. So, I am already stressed out that the DJ thing is messed up, already tired from crap at work this week, and already not feeling real hot today. So I called immediately and he says "that didn't take long" (for me to call). I said "what are you trying to do, give me a stroke?". Of course that make him defensive, she has a snack, he checked her BS first and so on. Well, all true but she is still alone, she is still 11, and for God's sake SHE HAS DIABETES!! So he asks if I want grandparents to go and get DD and I said yes, you call them, I will call her. So I call and she is almost there but approaching an area without sidewalks and then she is really mad that I am having her grandparents come get her. I got of work and went to meet up with CWD and she is OK but I am upset. My parents weren't worried, they were going to check on her if she didn't get there when they thought she should...my DH is probably upset at me for "freaking out"...I am just feeling like "who is the adult here?" Any suggestions for how to talk to DH about my concerns?