I don't have a guilt problem. I never have. I feel guilty about a lot of other stuff when it comes to my children, primarily things over which I actually have control yet do poorly, but I don't feel guilty in the least about the diabetes, (or the food allergies, crooked teeth, or that they need glasses.) I don't even think my husband feels guilty, and presumably the genes came from him since he has LADA. I guess I'm lucky that my rational side wins this argument. Am I alone, or are there other guilt-free D parents here?