Perhaps your husband could think of it as a guideline for everyone - your child, the parents, and the school. Everyone needs to be responsible and it outlines everyone's responsibility. If she over/undoses herself to get out of tests or homework then you have other bigger problems than the 504 - that would probably happen either way (eventually - too young to worry about that now I'd think). Ultimately just because he thinks X - doesn't mean it is right - or wrong. I suppose you have to go with your gut and your feelings and reasoning on the subject is just as valid (maybe even more logical) than his. You could always ask for the doctor to talk to him - assuming your pedi endo supports the 504. Sometimes people need to hear it from an authority figure before they'll change their thinking.