Youre ex sounds like a complete a$$. But Im sure Im not telling you anything you dont know already I feel the same way about car accidents, they dont happen very often but I still make my kids wear a seatbelt even if we're driving a mile down the road. I think you are a smart lady about checking each and every night. Youre not willing to take chances and your childs father shouldnt be either If he wont believe you maybe he will read info on the computer about type 1? I think for now your idea about cutting back on the lantus dose is a way to keep your child safe. Im sorry he's not being intelligent about this.