I pretty much just smile and nod and change the subject. It has been over four years and my feelings don't get hurt anymore. I kinda' think that teachable moments happen when curiosity is initiated on THEIR side. I do my things (give candy, carbs, whatever) and wait for the inevitable questions. Thing is, even here on the boards we all have different opinions about sugar, TV, whatever so we just have to learn to live nicely with each other, you know??