Wendyb

Oh, and I have no personal knowledge of this program at all, but I've heard it's done great things for some families. Just that it's a very hopeful place when you're down. I'm guessing you've already seen it, but just in case not, here's a link.
http://www.autismtreatmentcenter.org/

Didn't want to post on your thread, but I believe LantusFiend is diagnosed with both type 1 and aspbergers. I started reading his threads a couple years ago, when he was pretty young, if you look back at all his posts over the years -- wow, he's impressive. Think it might give you a boost.
He also has a really unique take on the idea of "disability" or medical conditions, etc. that has really helped me form the way I look at Selah's diabetes.
Hope that helps.

Hi Wendy! Keep smiling!!!!!!