Hailey's endo told her she has to lose weight, she put on 10 lbs since her last check. We eat healthy, we are active, and we very seldom eat out. I know that she learned about running high to lose weight last summer at camp and I believe that is why she hasn't been bolusing over the last few months, we found that the only time she was actually getting the insulin was when myself or her dad was present. It took me a while to catch it as I was having computer issues with carelink and had been unable to upload to see it Since the endo appointment we have enforced 20 minutes on the treadmill or walking outside daily, one serving at meals (no seconds), and no more school lunch (packed lunch only). I can see it coming. It was a year ago that a senior in her high school died from anorexia and it is rampant in her school. She obviously isn't yet but I can see that it could easily turn that way now that her dr has reinforced that she needs to lose weight. He didn't call her fat but I could tell by her face that she "heard" you are fat. He did tell her that she isn't obese but that gaining that much weight is not healthy and she needs to lose it before it gets out of control. I can see when I take myself down that slippery road and go overboard with my own weight obsession and I don't want to see her head down that road. She has watched me do the hcg diet or when I take *********** and lose weight quickly and she is upset that I won't let her do the same diets. She already hears all of the info out there about type 2 and obesity and she doesn't want her friends to think that she is type2 and did this to herself. I suppose this is more of a vent than a question.