Ok, what would YOU do? Short history, Hailey tried out for the AAU volleyball team at her school. The only two girls not accepted were her and another girl who just found out she has hashimotos and is seriously underweight (she is over 5 foot tall and weighs about 80 lbs). The coach told Hailey she was welcome to come to practices and has had her taking stats at the games. Hailey came home from a practice Tuesday and told me that the coach asked her to play in the last game since they won't have enough girls there to play. Would you let her? If she does it may help her chances for getting on the team next year. If she does not it may hurt her chances for next years team. I am angry that she was not selected in the first place because of the obvious selection (or exclusion however you want to look at it) but Hailey took it well and chose to go to practices, knowing she won't play, so she can improve her skills and be chosen for next years team. She was told she was not selected because she needed to improve her skills. Do I let her play or make a trip to the local water park and have her tell her coach that it has been planned since before she was asked to play?