Yeah, this is nuts. We have three people who are responsible for seeing that Jack gets to the nurse when he needs to: Jack, his teacher, and the nurse. EACH ONE has primary responsibility for making sure that he gets there. So Jack needs to remember, his teacher needs to remind him, and if those two fail, the nurse needs to call up to the room or go find him. There's none of this, "It's not my responsibility" crap. It's each one of their responsibility, and they all work together to make sure it happens. Your daughter is in kindy, so she should not have any responsibility at this point. The teacher and the nurse need to share that job equally. Ugh. This makes me so mad on your behalf. I hope that you call the ADA and that they can send someone out to help you. I wish I lived closer.