Ugh. You would think at this point in my life I would be used to dumb comments that are supposed to be complementary..in some bizarre way. My MIL and I were talking the other day and she mentioned it was a "good" thing, that Jason...out of all 4 of her grandkids, got the DX of D. He is such a "good boy". That none of the others could handle it. Im sure she meant it as some weird compliment and, indeed, were J's twin sis the one with the DX, I would surely have a harder time having her comply with treatment. But it just sounds like its "OK" that J was DX'ed...because he could handle it. It makes me both angry and sad for him, because he really *is* a good boy...sweet and kind. So, for 4.5 years of being a great little guy...he gets D. NOT FAIR! Anyway, Im generally not prone to self pity...for me or my kids. This just bugged me. Have you heard any comments that have bugged you lately?