and she is 60 Now what if I wouldn't have checked her? I wasn't going to check her until 3 am. I couldn't sleep so I decided to check just because. Would she have dropped even more? Well parents I have a dilema...Kadie sleeps in my bed, pretty much has since birth. I did have her mostly into her own room right before she was dx. After that I was so chicken to have her sleep alone that I let her back in with me. Does anyone else have this issue or is it just me? I am seeing someone now and he basicly calls me a bad parent because I let her sleep with me. He says I am spoiling her, letting her be the boss and inableing her. HELP ! Do we need counseling?