My husband won 4 tickets to a Christian Rock concert last week on the radio. Concert is tonight. We had opened it to our grownup friends to see if anyone wanted to go, but the kids knew we'd won the tickets, and we told them we'd take them (the 2 8yo's) if no one else wanted to go. Didn't look like anyone was going to take us up on it, then I think Wed, a friend said she and her friend could go. Told the kids that, they were pretty OK with it. Then yesterday the friend said she couldn't go after all. Grace had gone back to her dad's yesterday afternoon, before I knew the friend couldn't go. So when I read (on FB) that my friend couldn't go, I called dad and told him, and that we'd pick Grace up between 2-3pm. He says fine. This morning he called to tell me he didn't want her to go, because when I told him earlier yesterday that my friend was going, he said he made plans with them that he didn't want to change. ARGH! AND on top of it, he NEVER told her I'd called yesterday to say she COULD go, and doesn't plan on telling her at all. So I'm going to be made out to be the bad guy here, because he'll never tell her and I can't tell her because she doesn't need the burden on her shoulders that her dad kept her from going. That man makes me SOOOOO angry.