For us Moms vs Dads is more of a getting back to sleep issue. Her Dad means well and he thinks he's as quiet as a mouse but it's more of a bull in a china shop. So while I can go in quickly, wake her, have her test and be back in my bed in a couple of minutes. Her Dad turns up all the lights, talks loudly etc and it takes her longer to try and get back to sleep. Which is why she'd rather set an alarm and do it herself. She will text me the number when she checks. If she's high/low she'll call and we'll discuss what to do (I don't always wake up to the text ping but I do the phone). Her Dad really has no idea how to correct either way so she'll call me.