Need to vent since I'm still mad from Thursday. We've been gone all week-end, so I haven't been able to deal with the situation. At mil house since family was making a quick trip through. She had a couple dishes of candy out...including a little jar of Mike and Ike's which Nat likes. As soon as Nat reached for the jar, mil made some comment about "I don't know if you should have those." I immediately said, "I'm here. I've got it" Nat has a few...1 or 2 at a time. No big deal. Mil decides that she has had enough apparently and picks up the jar and takes it to the kitchen. I'm sitting right there. I was livid, but I didn't want to create embarrassment in their home with guests so I didn't say anything. A few minutes later I did go to the kitchen, found the candy and brought it back out. I wanted some., and I wanted to show her that it was OK for Nat to have some. Nat has a few more. She probably ate less than 20 in total. The next thing I know mil picks up the jar, empties it into her hand and puts them in her pocket. I was SO stunned that I think my mouth dropped open. We have to talk. There have been other incidents, but this takes the cake. It was like she was showing me that I am not making decisions with my daughter's best interest in mind. She knows better. Of course this is the woman who refuses to keep Nat overnight and has to constantly call us if Nat is there. If she knows so much, then she can just keep Nat for a week or 2 while we go on vacation. If you've made it this far, thanks for reading. Just had to vent.