I have a new boyfriend we have been steady for awhile now and he's coming down for two weeks. From the beginning my little sister has hated this guy, why I'm not sure, he's sweet and cares deeply about me. We recently talked about marriage and the direction we want to move in and have started making a few plans. My little sister I think feels like she's losing me, it was hard on her, me being away for a full year and I think she see's this boy as someone who is going to take me away from her. I'm not sure how to deal with her or what to say to help her realize that no boy can ever take me away from her. However I am older then her and at a different stage in my life, I can't drop the man I'm in love with just because she doesn't want to lose me. We could include her in a few of our activities, except for our romantic camping backwoods get-away trip. but what can I do to sooth her anxieties about losing me? surely some of you have been in this situation as a lot of you are married here. What can I do to make her feel better?? How do I tell her she'll always be my baby sister????? I love her and I want her to love her potential BIL he's amazing and likes a lot of what she likes. Should I plan an activity thats special just her and me???What can I do??