My non-d, non-celiac daughter is turning 9 in 2 weeks. She has decided that she hates anything that is gf and has voiced her opinion to everyone in ear shot. She told me she will refuse to eat a birthday cake that is gf and she wants one from the bakery. We do not have any gf bakeries in our small town. So, do I get her a cake from the bakery and make a gf one for Meredith to have at her sister's party, or in an attempt to be all inclusive and try not to make Meredith feel more different than she already does, do I make the gf cake and tell the birthday diva if she wants cake, she'll eat it?? I feel like either way is unfair to one of my girls. Either way, someone will be disappointed. As an aside, Meredith LOVES the bakery cake that her sister wants. Just now, she can't have it.