i am at my wits end....for a while now I have been periodically testing my son for Marijuana and cigarette usage through urine testing. Just cause he is 15 and running around with kids a lot and coming home late at night. He has agreed to this since it is a way to keep him on track. He also has ADD so does a lot of spontaneous and sometimes compulsive things...again to keep him on track...we test at will, if we think he is running around too much. So far he has come out clean. HOWEVER, the past two nights he has been to some teen clubs and so I warned him that I will be testing him soon for things which he said he was fine with. So this morning I performed the test and the nicotine came out positive...no mistaking about it. He denied for an hour until he was blue in the face. Stormed out and got a ride with a friend and then finally texted me and said that he "took a drag" but just to fit in. Anyway,....given that he is T1 (A1Cs for 7.7 at endos last week)....what do I do next? I detest smoking. None of us smoke in our house. I watched two uncles die from smoke related cancers. His grandparents smoke and are having health issues. I told him that I have zero tolerance for this behavior. We have now grounded him from driving...no more funding his car "buying" account...but other than that what are our next steps? We live in Georgia...I plan to call his pediatrician tomorrow and ask them if they need to see him. I am just devastated and so depressed. I have lost all trust in him. He has also been very slack lately with checking bg and taking his bg meter with him when he goes out at night. I feel like throwing in the towel at this point.