WittsEnd... I believe your best course of action is to go to a family therapist. It's usually not my first response..but when we attended the Friends for Life conference this year I met two wonderful therapists who were also diabetes educators and they work with families dealing with issues involving chronic conditions. You might want to search for this kind of therapist. I don't believe any child should have therapy by themselves but go through it with one or both parents and possibly with siblings as well. Hope things improve.